They sometimes target other women of course, but they really like to target pretty-faced women, just like anyone else. Some women like being dominated in a kinky sense, but Id bet safety pragma is more common and likely to be lot more powerful. Its like receiving a warning label with your medication. Assume you will need to help change the persons situation in some way. If they make gaslighting or smearing attempts, these are futile because you can go and verify that they misbehave by talking to people who know them, or perhaps some of the authorities involved will confirm. A good book is Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. Being abused and enslaved are depressing, and will only make a suicidal person feel worse. There needs to be accountability for the independent review organizations, too. I could also be stolen away from a lover this way if the protection were inadequate. I call them super survivors. Tim Harvey (Kathy), Tom Harvey (Acesha), John Harvey and Michael Harvey. Your entry has exceeded the maximum character limit. I am not somehow awkwardly incorrect about having been sexually assaulted by these two. Its as simple as that. Never trust blindly. Also, my personality isnt impulsive. (Note: I am using dedication to mean long-term reciprocation, not lifelong commitment humans rarely seem capable of lifelong commitment and I dont know what causes it when it happens.) Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Kathy Ann Ford to pay them a last tribute. I really needed help with that part but people didnt believe in the problem enough to invest the time into negotiating how I can prove this is a real problem. Join Facebook to connect with Kathy Ford and others you may know. Two confirmed perps times 4.8 5-year stretches is 9.6. Remember it. Towns want to look safe. I dont even feel like the same person anymore. Then I slowly lost some of my rationality. While in Austin, Kathy met and married Bradley Ford. The family will receive friends Tuesday, April 11, 2023, from 5:00 until 7:00 p.m. at Rose-Neath Funeral Home in Minden, Louisiana. A lot of people didnt want to acknowledge the risk because they think it will be a PR problem. Maybe some women are cruel enough to use men this way and to give nothing back. The art of war and the art of confusion are one in the same. How much more infuriating could the situation be??? I thought about making a new network, but it would probably end up with the same gender ratio which multiplies my already elevated sexual violence risk. This shouldnt be a big concern because the independent review organization is not there to punish anyone. Sometimes people feel this for a temporary reason. What these people have is much, much more than whats in that book. Maybe they just couldnt imagine how this could happen to someone because they didnt know that some women are targeted for sexual violence disproportionately. Send Flowers. So, I talked to the person who seemed most likely to be used as a central repository for reports, Geoff Anders, and sure enough Adam Saffron had done this to two other people. You cant hide from it. Send a note, share a story or upload a photo. It would be ideal if they could rigorously evaluate every persons report, but the world is not ideal. She is survived by : her brother Coy Fee (Mary) of Anderson; her step-daughters, Missy Richards and Kelly Ford (Kentucky); and her grandchildren, Dylan Cain, Sara Giles, Matthew Giles, Roger Richards, Bridgette, Tyler and Braxton. Even if you have to sandbox him to lower risk of physical harm (like only talking to him online), please do that and then ask him to detect harmful social norms. I can only get away with being so pessimistic before everyone dismisses everything I say due to them just not trusting my judgment. Even if it was, I would be very upset because I would continue to experience a lack of respect. That seemed so senseless. Sex offenders wield the art of confusion, so the advocate needs to be shrewd and well-informed with the ability to make good arguments, and bright and rational enough to advocate in the face of clever arguments from the bright rationalist sex offenders around. Sometimes thats entirely chemical. I was not impulsive enough. I would reciprocate and sacrifice for my protector. The son of Kathy Ford and Ennio Stirpe, Michael dropped his father's surname and took on the Ford name in 2014 before he commenced his campaign for city councillor. People could decide my human rights are not important at all, or not worth any effort, because I am happy. You can ask the people who have been following my abuse reduction efforts what has happened to me over time. What is needed here is quality not quantity. I stopped being creative because I didnt feel like sharing my creativity anymore and thinking about it made me sad. The person wants to die. Ive been posting a lot since November 2017, after I was funded to reduce risk of sexual violence in the EA movement. The offenders did. Echovita Inc is a registered trademark. I am pretty sure my future will be filled with security problems, trauma, chaos, dysfunction, financial problems, etc. Men may have a scent-related instinct that detects womens fertile periods. Normally, they want you to show your abilities to everybody and then if lots of people like your blog articles, theyll pay attention to you. This is still a problem, of course. On March 17, 2018, she committed suicide. I was upset because of a sex offender and wanted to be protected. "She was beautiful, she was talented, she was interested in all kinds and things, and loved people,"Amluxen told The Detroit News on Saturday. I was harmed by your sex offenders, multiple different times. People need for these independent review statistics to be obvious and available in at least the majority of places where they actually read crime statistics. People with disabilities experience crime at a higher rate because the criminals know that their reports will be low quality. No. A couple of years ago, I met someone who initiated a form of attraction Id never experienced before. With over 1,900 locations, Dignity Memorial providers proudly serve over 375,000 families a year. If I had felt listened to, things would be different. Male dominated environments create a disadvantage for women in terms of sexual violence. Henry Ford II, the grandson of Henry Ford and himself the president and CEO of the automotive company, was her second husband. You cant take in 1000 reports, review three, and call it a sample. Oh, they might confess to a stigmatized difference that most other people in the group have, but thats not showing weakness then, that makes them the hero of the underdogs. It makes sense to think that kin selection may have resulted in people killing themselves when they become too old to support themselves. Without a concept like super survivors people like me will be ignored. Cities make money from residents. These are definitely my people. You can ask her questions. Let others know about your loved one's death. I am choosing to remain anonymous; I do not wish to be contacted by any of the people accused here, nor do I want to be considered a mouthpiece or advocate for Kathys specific viewpoints. This went on for months. Legacy invites you to offer condolences and share memories of Kathy. Independent review organizations need to accept both police reports that were made successfully and also accepts all crime reports that people didnt or couldnt file with the police. You might even do it because of motivated reasoning. I cant be myself outside these movements because those places dont really want for people like me to be themselves. First, I decided I couldnt be a writer. OBITUARY Kathy Louise Ford May 2, 1953 - March 10, 2021 IN THE CARE OF Cook-Walden/Capital Parks Funeral Home & Cemetery Kathy Louise Ford was born on May 2, 1953 in Austin, Texas to the late Kathleen Shelby and Charles Amos. There is no photo or video of Kathy Ann Ford.Be the first to share a memory to pay tribute. They all have to do courageous things sometimes. Im not likely to try it because I am an altruist. . Im spent. They might receive so many reports that they cant follow up on them all. Kathy departed this life on March 10, 2021. She was predeceased by : her parents, Lula Ingle (Fee) and Walter Ingle; her former husband Larry Cain; her children, Michael Cain (Farrah) of Anderson and Michelle "Shelly" Giles (Doug) of Martinsville; and her sisters, Bonnie Bruce and Violet Turbeville. Guestbook Condolences Our angel, Kathryn "Kathy" Grace Pou Ford, 59, passed away Sunday, August 22, 2021 at CHI St. Luke's Hospital in Livingston, Texas. I am not sure how they do this yet, but I think their bag of tricks includes lying about and hiding stuff other people dont bother to. Oh, sure, people ask for evidence, and then always find some flaw because it is not possible to provide perfect research, then ignore the problem. Before I found this place, my life was utterly unengaging. It works pretty well, actually. This does happen. Please encourage people to make distinctions between something I applied rigor to, some random idea I merely jotted down, and things that are in between. I suspect theres a connection between our amoral manipulators and our charmers. Thats two confirmed perps for you. However, we have to admit, going after rapists is dangerous! How? The Dallas Morning News. I need respect, knowing that others know its not okay to violate my boundaries. Everyone needs heroes, but dont follow them. Most people have an incredibly strong need for self-expression. If people dont use the statistics, accountability wont work. If the independent review organization follows up on a random sample of crime reports, theyll be able to do the highest quality job on fewer reports. I literally ran out of time. Amluxen said Ford will be greatly missed by family members and her many friends. My spirits were high. This was automatic. Theyre too creative. PLEASE everyone add a list of the nastiest people into your wills right now. She was born September 26, 1969 in Port Huron, Michigan. Is it because young-looking people are more attractive? Create a Notice. Thank you for this, Evan, because my need for novelty and a creative outlet is really quite high! After volunteering with. Suicidal people should not be shunned. The concentration of sex offenders would be way too high. I need personhood, knowing that others care if something does violate my boundaries. A corpse is nothing to be jealous of. If I posted it you can assume it is completed. This preference varies based on culture. OBITUARY Kathy Bachman Ford February 4, 1959 - April 29, 2021 Kathy Bachman Ford, 62, of West Columbia passed away on Thursday, April 29, 2021. Do we take care of our elderly parent, or the baby? Annie Kotowicz would probably make a brilliant suffering reductionist. You will all be safer if you all cooperate by making reports! She is survived by her husband, Willie Eugene Ford; brother, Deron Bachman (Pam); sons, Jeramie Cason and Ted Michael Cason (Jessica); grandchildren, Logan, Ariel, Cody, Chance, Dyllan and Ravyn; nieces, Heather and Ashton and nephew, Joshua. Ford's cause of death was unclear, butshe suffered from multiple health conditions and had undergone a double lung transplant in recent years, her sister said. The independent review organization needs to accept all crime reports, period. Hanging out with the police is too friendly. I need these three things to be fully intact. He said I am brilliant and gave me other compliments like that. If disrespect didnt hurt me, it would feel that all the moral weight was taken away from me as a person. I didnt think it could happen to me. I could leave rationality, effective altruism and programming to escape the male-dominated environments that increase my sexual violence risk so much. The random sample does have to be large enough, but it doesnt have to be every single report because the police dont know which report is going to be reviewed! Hearing that lots of people warn against Arc would be enough alone, but with all the other things Ugh. I didnt want to be stigmatized and dismissed, so I maintained as much optimism as possible. The differences between my way and the LW/EA way are relatively small. 6. "He was coming back from band practice, and they hit a patch of ice, and hit one of the cement abutments. The secret to earning a womans willingness to defer is not about being dominant toward the women! Perhaps some women dont experience the sort of dedication that motivates you to go out of your way for someone. It ensures the independent review organizations statistics are actually used. I cant help that it turns me on when people defend me against others. Kathy Forth was an abuse reduction writer, volunteer project coordinator for EAGxAustralia and aspiring data scientist. So there need to be multiple separate independent review organizations. Quite possibly both. 1949. I worked on bringing myself out. Ford's death was confirmed to The Detroit News Saturday by her sister,Sharon Amluxen of Grosse Pointe Shores. 2023 The Detroit News, a Digital First Media Newspaper. In these male-dominated, nerdy environments, we are cut down twice over. Oh, but sex offenders couldnt possibly be targeting you just because youre around them at work, in a rationalist meetup group, at an effective altruism event, or hanging around programmers in your free time, could they? I am also strategic enough to light much larger things on fire in a much less careful fashion. I needed someone special. Echovita offers a solidarity program that gives back the funds generated to families. Kathy Ford. Kathleen "Kathy" Teres (Daniels) Ford, 59 of Alanson, passed away on June 23, 2020 at the McLaren Northern Michigan Hospital following a lengthy illness. You will be pleased with him. Talking to psychologists doesnt change a situation. If theres not enough funding to review every report, the random sample will still keep police accountable, and thats the goal. You may sabotage them. She was 80.. Even if I artificially enforced a gender ratio, it would have the same people in it, and would end up with similar social norms around sexual violence. If they do, people move there, and spend money. Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International (CC BY-SA 4.0). Therefore, I have consistently been wrong about how bad my life would be. The independent organization needs to record a mark against the police station if they didnt do what could reasonably be done given a reasonable time limit. She combines reports, she looks for evidence. You know that. Ive tried everything I was able to try before my motivation ran out. I was allowing myself to make dumb mistakes so as not to look particularly smart. It needs to be a sign, not a person. Im not sure if other bisexuals are like this, but my testosterone level is on the high side of the womens range. Is it because offenders feel more powerful when targeting a young-looking person? Emotional intelligence can be used to increase productivity, and decrease the chance of chaos like abuse, kerfuffles, and scandals. Send a note, share a story or upload a photo. They can also advocate for the survivor when reporting to Julia Wise. If your lover wont protect you against threats, how are you supposed to be protected at all! He touched my thigh again. Ask a professional user interface designer about why the independent review organizations statistics need to be right there displayed in a really obvious way whenever people look at crime statistics. For one example: Adam Saffron really valued my mind. Youre supposed to log abuse because its useful later on when you need to go to an authority. Therefore, even with a random sample, the police will improve their behavior. The great thing about dying is that I can make enemies with allllllll the nastiest people and none of them will hurt me! If the police dont take all the reports of severe harm seriously and go deal with every dangerous person they can, this will show in the crime statistics. Im bisexual. There needs to be an advocate that everyone feels comfortable with, and who is very knowledgeable about how sexual violence actually works someone who will keep it a secret and talk to you while you try to figure out what to do. I used to be street harassed all the time. Sign up for service and obituary updates. The most frustrating thing about being suicidal is that I am not allowed to prove to you how much I need help by taking desperate measures. The family wishes donations be made to The Edge Childrens Church or given plantable flowers that can be planted in memory of Kathy. I fantasized about throwing myself at them, and even obeying them, because they protected me in the fantasy. We are sad to announce that on February 1, 2023, at the age of 74, Thelma Ford of Anderson, Indiana, born in Middlesboro, Kentucky passed away. (Two of his survivors have talked to me, and Ive seen some of his motivated reasoning about Stockholm syndrome on my time line, so Im pretty sure about him being a sex offender now.) Inez Gaslin. According to the CDC, being a bisexual woman doubles your sexual violence risk. Id rather die than accept that. Never send a sexual violence survivor to a mental ward! If this person is stalking me, their plausible deniability is on fleek! We are, in effect, letting the police write their own report card. That puts all the eggs into one basket. I think there need to be regular reporting events where everyone is invited to report to police as part of a group or to support others. I made myself post creative things in Optimal Memes for Cosmopolitan Teens. Thats 24 years, or 4.8 stretches of 5 years. I am horrified at the thought of the ghoulish things I could become if I lost hope in the dignity, personhood and moral weight that encourage me to preserve what is good about me. Obedience? Its random. I tried to tell people about this lock-in problem from the moment I arrived in these movements. Kathleen DuRoss Ford, an accomplished photographer and former model who was married to Henry Ford II from 1980 until his death in 1987, died Friday in a Pittsburghhospital. You need citizens. According to FBI data, teens and young women are targeted for sexual violence 510 times more often than older women. Without the social networks I resonate with, I wouldnt be able to be myself. She doesnt pressure you. Two of the main suicide risk factors are feeling like a burden and feeling alone. It isnt status that I want. There need to be regular calls for survivors to remind people to report to Julia Wise and the police. I have already seen myself begin to radicalize despite my rationality practice, my emotional support, and my antidepressants. My total number of LW/EA offenders is at least 5, possibly as high as 8 (depending on a number of factors like whether they identified as part of the movement and I wasnt sure about that in every case). There isnt enough food. I tried becoming fat to ruin my beauty so that I could avoid sexual violence. I wrote a bit for them, too. From what Ive heard from the other women, The Bay behaves like women are part of some horrid involuntary petting zoo. Maybe the women are just afraid. He touched my thigh at Signal Data Science where I was living and training to become a data scientist. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Kathy Ann Ford to pay them a last tribute. She was born in West Columbia to the late Ted E. Bachman and Joyce Ann Wise Bachman. I didnt manage to bust every one of them, as thats actually quite hard to do given that they dont tend to leave evidence and a lot of survivors dont report. ? my instincts scream. I hope at least some of you will warn the prettiest women that they should leave, especially if the sex offenders start targeting them. At some point in the last year or two, I had a slightly early mid-life crisis: Im halfway to dead and I still cant be who I am! The heirs of Henry Ford II have suffered defeat in their battle to force their mother's companion who, they claim, abused her to give up control of her life, Page Six has learned. Ive been thinking about this a lot and the amount of time and effort it would take to reduce my risk to something livable is overwhelming. Most people just dont put anywhere near as much as effort into polish. It is bad for your rationality. Diana's Kathy Ann Ford, 62, died of COVID on August 27, 2021, in the intensive care unit of the Good Shepherd Medical Center. Ive already tried to solve the security problems, but theyre not solved because people arent doing anywhere near enough to make the environments I need safe enough for me. I cant be particularly useful to the world with this much risk of disruption in my future. April 14, 2023 (90 years old) View obituary. Would you like to offer Thelma Fords loved ones a condolence message? I am not going to enjoy my future with a problem this large that I cant solve. The secret is respecting the woman and knowing how to deal with dangerous men who could hurt her. Men have no incentive to tell you how to attract women. I think that would be an abomination. I didnt keep this relationship between protection and arousal a complete secret of course, but I couldnt advertise it widely enough to make it likely to succeed, especially given that I am selective, and that some of my enemies are a challenge. Featured Obituary. "Her first husband, she met when she was in high school," Amluxen said. Her first marriage, to David DuRoss, ended tragically. I think a study would help this hideously oppressed group of women get the help, the physical security, and support they need. Friends may call from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Thursday (June 17) at the. Please be glad that some people can kill themselves. 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