Added bonus for him, it sure pissed you off. In MO as a father you have no rights. We will work zealously to guide you through the appeals process, ensuring that you present the proper evidence and arguments. Giana Messore licensed in AR only Little Rock, AR. You will then find that the state is the real and true DEADBEAT! How is it fair that I foolishly got with a woman who lied about her past was intimate with me and then breaks up for me after she gets pregnant and then remarries and ironically has another child. After the child reaches 18 years of age, let see who the better parent was in the childs eyes, not the courts. I calmly told him why are you talking to me in a rude manner and he got pissed he told me I dont need to respect you or put up with this and hung up on me. Fast forward to the last three years and it has been downhill since! Your money is good enough but youre not. Even if the mother asked for the support to be modified by asking the judge, it usually is not granted. This makes the assumption that the states dont already know their laws are draconian. Grahams piece traces the history of the modern system and exposes how it is based on stereotypes and outdated notions and exposes why child support is so unfair to fathers. Dont know where we are going. Only for her to go for child support which she never paid to him she was barley in their childrens lives before they were 3 and 4 . You have to owe several months worth of Child Support to get to the point where you cant drive your own car. Her Honor was not happy that someone without a law degree proved her wrong. He is what brought the most happiness in my life and an outrageous amount of support made me homeless and broke that time that was once spent with my son. DOWN WITH THE MEN is all I hear them saying anymore. Looking at the numbers Im paying every part of raising my daughter who 8 that lives with her mother and giving her mother a nice tax free tip each month! The mother always used the child as a weapon prior to the legal matters being settled and now she doesnt have a leg to stand on. I think that child support system needs to be corrected because I hate it that some women dont even bother in looking for jobs because they live out of child support . I apply for food stamps and am DENIED because I am just at their income limit because they DONT COUNT CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS!! The process will continue whether you want to participate or not. They can lower your payments or you can pay a lump sum and get it all taken off. even knowing this who youre gonna call? The Federal Parent Locator Service uses a national database to track down noncustodial parents to enforce payments. While many low-income fathers have trouble with accommodating support; how does this level up for the monthers, working two to three jobs, attending college courses and spending the majority of their non-working moments on the expressway, shopping for Schiller clothes and supplies, household goods, groceries, cooking, entertaining, helping with homework, disciplining and a plethora of other responsibilities. When put together, it's almost like millions across America are asking our children - many growing up in an advanced economy with higher living expenses and educational needs - to go without. This process actually made me consider going back to school to practice family law just so I can advocate for fathers rights. If anyone has been ordered to pay interest on their child support obligation, please feel free to ask the court or local prosecutor to recalculate the interest you are or have been ordered to pay based on this FEDERAL law. Grow up and do what YOU need to do. So, when a man is only bringing home $200 a paycheck after cs, how are they supposed to provide for their kids so they can actually be fully involved? As we all now those numbers are not based in reality. So sad how the law works.. AMEN, this is the mos awsome thing I have heard/readI absolutely applaud, and what I was expectingnot what happened, not close by farwas awful. She had her permit suspended for oweing a few months when we were paying it all on time until my injury. Well I need to work for a living as well to support my son and my daughter. That is not the case for most of the others out there. I think both parents should have to work and if the parent with custody has infant they shouldnt have to work until the child starts school then starts both parents haveing jobs and i think the custodial parent should have to show receipts of where the CHILD SUPPORT goes to the the children like light bill rent water if ya have to pay for such and heating if not wood heat a/c is a luxury not a necessity fans cool just fine also no car payments cause less face it people theres always public transportation that will take you anywhere you need to go and there are goverment assited phones so ya dont need an 800 dollar iphone or what ever anyway thats just my take on things O one more thing if its court order that you payand have visitation ever other weekend well dangit custodial parents stick to the LAW and if a child moves out before turning 18 dont lie and keep collecting child support for that child also a LAW i think its called fraud theift embezzlement or something im sure its nit good and could lead to prison if you still accepted the money for o i dont know 3 years and didnt let the person paying the child support see their children which was court ordered okay i think im done STUPID CHILD SUPPORT. The whole system is punitive, if I lose my job and cant afford an attorney to get my payments reduced they threaten to take away drivers license or put you in jail. But again, divorce employs too many people. And NEVER MARRY BOYS! Believe me, I understand that women got screwed back in the days. Products like vasalgel and the male pill are always kept five years away with no reason given. Statistically the only difference in who wins custody has become the number of men who dont battle for it, the actual custody battles that take place display numbers that show this issue is about family, about capitalism, and about a government that has no concern for the livlihood of our children, of their future, of our grandkids future, and our society is essentially doomed because of the denial of the manevolence of our powers that be. 2) Yes, 50/50 should probably be the default. If a man is not working he can be daycare and daycare is added on top of child support too, at least here. Your case is very rare though because most MEN, not boys, wish they could get more time with their kids even if they still paid the same amount of money but you offered 50/50 with no payments. And to top it all off he wanted me to go on a talk show in the 1990s. so the ex realizing shes lost, stops paying her attorney, and my property lien being remanded is never filed with the county recorder by the exs attorney(because the money is dried up the exs coucil drops all work on the case). How does that make it a mediation if he basically says that it is unlikely. Increasing access and visitation. Because the mother got mad one day from an argument she filed. Though I understand what this article is trying to say I dont fully agree with it. Reform Family Law and Family Courts This is not fatherhood. Your email address will not be published. Maybe one day deadbeat moms will receive equal treatment, but it wont be anytime soon. Dont make the same mistake again buddy. And you told it as it is. I claim bankruptcy. This form needs to be signed by both parties in the presence of a witness who must be over the age of . Also I had a garnishment of 9000 held in limbo for 15 months where it was not applied to my child support for that entire time. Some men hate paying child support! Guess she doesnt know they go off my $$$ not hers. But 800.00 a month and 1200.00 on a 3 paycheck month, come on thats crazy. Open your mind and see the truth. No parent should be paying another parent to rasise their own child. I am facing the loss of my contractors license, drivers license, garnishing of my bank account and jail time because I cannot afford to pay the unfairly and grossly inaccurately calculated child support obligation. So enter a judges job But its just a job to the judge so status quo is what you get. Even more so for those of us who would gladly assume the role of the custodial parent with no expectation of monetary support. Now he is going to court in a few days to show why he isnt in contempt of court and our 10 month old baby may have to see her father go to jail because of this corrupt system!!! Instead, CSS has helped her collect half of my check for my entire adulthood. FYI I am a man of anyone was assuming I am a heartless woman. Ive paid over 25% to the mother, who cheated, with held my children and who was the breadwinner of the household. The couple shared physical custody 50/50. I would of got in all sorts of trouble. Rose you really are making it sounds so like you created the child alone. Now Im just a stranger to my kids that gives their mother without them knowing. Now this system is nothing but a ponzy scheme for women ran by man hating feminists, As father of 3 boys Im currently paying $2028 a month to a college educated woman with a degree who sits at home and recently just purchased a 2013 camry with child support while my bills building up my trash bill is suspended and gas utilities is off its struggle and fustrating this woman is avoiding court summons because I want a divorce..but the state has already ruled in the favor of the woman the children resides with both parents but documentation states one parent Ive written them and called and they listen but do nothing marriage is a joke along with child support lawsnot fair i love my boys just as much and more, Im so sorry rose but youre so full of yourself do not generalize your own perception of men or parenting values with your own personal experience thank you. We are going to have to take it. I had to move in with family and my closest relative lives close to an hour from my children. The mother of the child filed for child support with false information and with no time sharing agreement in place, my bf got screwed. Ive been paying child support for 19 years in the state of NY and to date its at $148,450 PAID! Since his election in 2002, Abbott has made child support a major focus of his office and used it as a rallying cry in his 2006 re-election campaign. The system needs Common Sense Reform. Why is she entitled to it? But because her mother is a low life Im charge 1375 a month cant even afford my expenses and will get in trouble with the state. Largely because governments and feminists dont want me to have control over their sexual reproduction. child related expenses should be equally divided and same with medical and dental care. I could not afford to pay the payments plus the past support. In no state is a parent allowed to withhold visitation because of support owed. We will not be hurting anymore. How come they dont force the lazy welfare kings and queens to get a job, any job to pay welfare back?????! It was on this faithful day, i came across some comments on a website about this great Helper called Robinson.buckler , so many persons claimed that he help them to renew their relationship and bring their ex back, i had to contact him because he was my last hope. I got the full scene on video and got it online for divorce proof later on. It leaves young fathers in confusion and a state of helplessness. I say we dont separate fathers from mothers in this battle for new legislation and justice. i feel bad for any child who has to be forced to live this way the law makers should be shot!!!!! If money is the most important thing when it comes to raising a child then we should give custody to the parent who makes the most money. Taxmanyou work at IRS? Im kinda in the same boat, but Im not going to be a slave or indentured servant: Im going to take my life before that happens. 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